by Jeff | Jun 8, 2014
Over the last few weeks, there have been some shocking headlines involving young people who have allowed their destructive thoughts to bleed into destructive actions. Jeff & DW share their thoughts on the tragic story out of Isla Vista, Calif. involving Elliot Rodger and how we can reach out to young people who believe their life is hopeless. Our thoughts and prayers are with all the families who were affected by this unspeakable tragedy.
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Discussed on the Show
Moral relativism
“Instead of teaching young people how to shoot an arrow at a target, we’re teaching them to shoot an arrow and paint the arrow into the bullseye. This is a perfect picture of moral relativism today.” Jeff
Should & Must
“There are two paths in life: Should and Must. We arrive at this crossroads over and over again. And each time, we get to choose.
Should is how others want us to show up in the world — how we’re supposed to think, what we ought to say, what we should or shouldn’t do. It’s the vast array of expectations that others layer upon us. When we choose Should the journey is smooth, the risk is small.
Must is different—there aren’t options and we don’t have a choice.
Must is who we are, what we believe, and what we do when we are alone with our truest, most authentic self. It’s our instincts, our cravings and longings, the things and places and ideas we burn for, the intuition that swells up from somewhere deep inside of us. Must is what happens when we stop conforming to other people’s ideals and start connecting to our own. Because when we choose Must, we are no longer looking for inspiration out there. Instead, we are listening to our calling from within, from some luminous, mysterious place.” Read more.
Ethos vs Morals
Ethos is your safe place. That safe place is where truth is.
Read On
The Psychology of Elliot Rodger
Elliot Rodger – Wikipedia
Reaching out to the “Elliots” of the world
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by Jeff | Jun 1, 2014
Kristen Jane Anderson is back on the show tonight! Her book, Life In Spite of Me, and bio are available on her website. Tonight’s show is continuing our discussion from last week on living with intentionality. Living with intentionality is all about knowing and living out your purpose. If you have no purpose and no goals, life becomes monotonous, mediocre, boring, dull and we become apathetic to the world around us. We were not created for that kind of life!
In the 2nd half of the show, Bill Van Kirk joins us to share about Ultimate Frisbee Nights. Bill is the youth pastor at Spring Lake Church in Green Bay. He also chimes in and shares his perspective on living with intentionality.
Discussed on the Show
- Scramble for Hope – come golf with Jeff & Dave
- Jeff deleted his Facebook apps this week
- “Unplanned time goes to your weakness.” Gordon MacDonald
- Struggles with perfectionism
- “If you aim small, you miss small.” Bill Van Kirk
Discussion Questions
- When someone says “live intentionally,” what does that mean?
- In what ways do teens live intentionally?
- What barriers does our family have to living intentionally?
- How do we remove those barriers?
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by Jeff | May 25, 2014
What will you do this summer to intentionally get the most out of summer? Jeff and DW share pitfalls and helpful things to do to make this a great summer. This episode of HopeNet Radio is packed with helpful tips and questions to consider to help you answer that question.
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Discussed on the Show
This article from The Gospel Coalition.
Silver Birch Ranch Summer Camps
Join us and support HopeNet Radio at Scramble for Hope 2014
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by Jeff | May 18, 2014
Does a big mistake thwart God’s plan for our lives? We have a tendency to feel that “if only I would’ve/wouldn’t have__________, God would still be able to use me.” Is this really true? How can I know if I’m really God’s “Plan A?”
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Our Guests:
Jonnie Sharp – Youth Pastor & Life Skills Coach (Freedom Life Skills)
Becky (Foster) Roosma – Full-time wife & mom
Jonnie and Becky were instrumental in launching HopeNet 360 to where it is today. Jonnie has been a bivocational youth pastor for years. Becky (aka BB Foster) hosted a radio show, Hope In The Nighttime, from 2008-09. Together, they have a combined 50+ years mentoring teens and young adults in life and faith.
Discussed on the Show:
- Perfectionism
- God’s Plan vs. God’s Will
- Failure & Success
- Kyle snuck back in studio for one more week 🙂
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by Jeff | May 11, 2014
Tonight’s episode of HopeNet Radio is all about moms! Happy Mother’s Day to moms out there. Jeff, Dave, Kyle and Todd welcome Sandy Hartman to the show tonight to talk to a real-life mom about real-life challenges being a mom.
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Some rad things about Sandy:
She picked out her husband in a yearbook.
She has officially played Flappy Bird.
She always has a smile and her laugh is infectious.
She is a mom to kids of her own and is hosting a foreign exchange student.
Farewell, Kyle
Tonight is Kyle’s last episode with us. Recently engaged, Kyle will be moving back home to Illinois. It has been well-established that Kyle is a Bears fan, but regardless, we’re going to miss him on the show. Keep your ears peeled, he may make a cameo in future episodes. Gonna miss you, bro!
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by Jeff | May 4, 2014
Anger is an emotional response related to one’s psychological interpretation of having been threatened. Often it indicates when one’s basic boundaries are violated. Some have a learned tendency to react to anger through retaliation. Anger may be utilized effectively when utilized to set boundaries or escape from dangerous situations. (Thanks, Wikipedia.)
It’s normal to be angry, just not all the time. If you find yourself being angry a lot of the time, it’s time to talk. Chat with a coach.
Stuff Jeff & Dave talk about:
Is it wrong to be angry? Is it wrong to feel justified in your anger? What are appropriate ways to display anger?
When do you get angry? What if I’m angry all the time?
When anger becomes destructive.
Passive & Aggressive expressions of anger don’t work
Being assertive.
Does prayer help with anger?
Dive Deeper
Galatians 6 says that if the Spirit of God is in us, we have self-control. Controlling our anger not only shows our character, it is a mark of faith. Here are some relevant articles that we found helpful.
Changing An Angry Spirit (Focus on the Family)
Control Anger Before It Controls You
Teaching Your Teen About Anger
Anger (APA)
Anger: What Works & What Doesn’t
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